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How far back do you remember?
Why is there a picture of a weird monkey from the 80’s and a bunch of pumpkins in the picture? This image brings to mind an event that...

I wasted 4 years of my life...
I did a degree I hated. 4 years of art college. Have you done the same thing? Stuck at something you really did not enjoy. I didn’t know...

5 Signs You Lack Healthy Boundaries
1. You say Yes without thinking, then you regret it. 2. You do not filter any information you give to others. 3. ...


Changing Your Mind Is A Taboo Subject
“You can change anything (partner, career, yourself), you just have to give yourself permission.” – Jimmy Carr (Before and Laughter) It’s...


Every September was Hellish...
How do you feel about change? Do you like it? Or is it just flippin’ scary? So why was every September a total nightmare? It’s something...


Everyone Loves a Specialist
This is the case in coaching too. Finding the “right coach” to deal with the issue you have. Divorce coaches, Financial, Public Speaking,...


Making the Impossible Possible.
I wasn’t a church goer, yet there I was, waiting to ring for my first Sunday Service. I was terrified! For those of you who know nothing...

Do you hold back from speaking to your partner for fear of their reaction?
“Have you asked them?” “Erm….no, what if I’m right and they are annoyed with me?” This is a common scenario with my clients. They are...

If you stop sucking your thumb, I will buy you a Care Bear.
That’s how Funshine bear made it into my life. But I didn’t stop sucking my thumb. I just hid it better. Have you ever been offered...

What if I never......
Find love? Discover my perfect job? Have enough money? Feel confident? Enjoy my life? Do you sit with these thoughts going around in your...

What if I don't Succeed?.....And What if I DO?
When I speak to potential clients, one of their biggest fears is that they may not succeed at the goal they are striving for. The next...

It was my wedding day and I was Upset!
She is my daughter, and I am telling you She. Is. Upset. This was the voice of my mum from behind a pillar on my wedding day. And she was...

I absolutely hate receiving compliments!
Is this something you say? My daughter said it to me last night. She said she has no idea how to respond. I said, just say “thank you”....

How one moment in a class room stole my power...and I took it back.
My face burned red as the teacher shoved a book into my stomach. Next, he grabbed me by the back of the neck to “guide” me to the place I...

I didn't go to the dentist for 24 Years!!
I don’t really know why. I was never particularly scared of the dentist. I just stopped going. And the longer I left it, the more...

I Thought He Was Going To Propose
He didn’t. It hadn’t even crossed his mind. Have you had times in your life when you had expectations that just didn’t work out? Looking...

Clearing out – just stuff or emotions?
I’ve always known I’m a messy person. In the same way as I know I have blue eyes, brown hair, sucked my thumb until I was 13 and cried a lot


How can I understand someone when they don't make sense to me?
In NLP (Neuro Linguistic Programming), we have a series of beliefs called presuppositions. It is something we believe to be true..

I lived in a caravan in Scotland during winter..
I lived in a caravan in Scotland during winter. As the Scots would say, it was fechin Baltic!


I MANIFESTED my perfect man!!…
6 months ago, I told the Universe what I wanted in my perfect man. 5 months ago, he turned up. I didn't just daydream, I took action!
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